times i almost punched someone in the face (what not to say to someone whose had a miscarriage)

what not to say (to avoid getting punched):

it wasn't meant to be.

i'm sure you'll have hundreds of babies in the future.

you'll get pregnant again.

maybe you need to see a specialist. 

don't stress. once you stop stressing, you'll have a baby.

i've had three babies and the secret is, you need to not wear high heels. 

did you drink caffeine while you were pregnant? 


what to say:

i'm sorry.

that's shitty.

that sucks, and i'm sorry you're going through that.


...or just don't say anything. silence can be nice and not awkward if you don't let it be awkward.
and hugs are great.